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When a child reveals the wrong traits which it has inherited from its parents, shall they storm over this reproduction of their own defects? No, no! Let parents keep a careful watch over themselves, guarding against all coarseness and roughness, lest these defects be seen once more in their children. (AH 174.1) MC VC
Manifest the meekness and gentleness of Christ in dealing with the wayward little ones. Always bear in mind that they have received their perversity as an inheritance from the father or mother. Then bear with the children who have inherited your own trait of character. (AH 174.2) MC VC
Parents must trust implicitly in the power of Christ to transform the tendencies to wrong which have been transmitted to their children. (AH 174.3) MC VC
Have patience, fathers and mothers. Often your past neglect will make your work hard. But God will give you strength if you will trust in Him. Deal wisely and tenderly with your children. (AH 174.4) 2 I MC VC