“For My yoke is grievous.” Is that what He says? No. “My yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” Matthew 11:30. The burden you are carrying which is so heavy, and which causes such weariness and perplexity, is your own burden. You desire to meet the world’s standard; and in your eager efforts to gratify ambitious and worldly desires, you wound your consciences, and thus bring upon yourselves the additional burden of remorse. (RC 367.5) MC VC