This statement is so true that even when the procedure is used by skillful deceivers, the soft answer enables them to control their victims and lead them on into greater loss. The natural man or woman tends to answer anger with anger, so that the difficulty is made greater and the wounds long lasting. Only when a genuine love for others fills the soul can the right sort of soft answer be made. Even then, love will often guide one to keep silent until the fury of wrath is spent. But the silence should be a loving, sympathetic silence, not one of tight-closed lips and hard eyes (see 1 Sam. 25:14-35; Matt. 5:39; 1 Peter 3:9; MH 486; Ed 114).