To those who do not accept Christ as their Saviour, and His teachings as their standard of belief and conduct, the ideals, principles, and practice of Christianity are foolishness (
1 Cor. 1:18). By reason of their outlook on life, unbelievers often find it most difficult to tolerate a pattern of conduct that tends to restrict their own ways of living, or implies that their concepts and practices are evil or inferior. Paul does not forbid all association with unbelievers, but only such association as would tend to diminish the Christian’s love for God, to adulterate the purity of his outlook on life, or to lead him to deviate from a strict pattern of conduct. Christians are not to shun their relatives and friends, but to associate with them as living examples of applied Christianity and so win them to Christ (
1 Cor. 5:9, 10; 7:12; (10:27). The decisive question is, Does the Christian choose to associate with the unbeliever because of a fondness for the ways of the world, or because of a sincere desire to be a blessing to the unbeliever and to win him to Christ? A second question, and one of no less importance to the Christian himself, is, Whose influence is likely to prevail, that of Christ or that of the evil one? When it comes to a binding relationship such as marriage, however, the Christian who truly loves the Lord will under no circumstances unite with an unbeliever, even in the pious and otherwise commendable hope of winning him to Christ.